MY HATCH POCKET JOURNAL - BILLY COY (ebook reader 7 inch TXT) 📗

the next man could be their true love, but after a while, they discover that he too is just a “beast” like all the others and she’s not in love, and then she wants to move on; how does she get out…? She gets another male to protect her and pull her out of a relationship that has gone bad.
• Jennifer C. a house wife says that she thinks that men like her husband of twenty years in marriage cheat because they have become bored of the woman they are with, or her beauty has faded, and that no matter how much she tries to look beautiful, sexy and romantic for him, his perception about her beauty has faded too, and so he will find another fit or younger woman to fulfill his needs in a woman.
On women she says that she never cheated on her husband whom she says she still loves even after two years of separation, because he was her first. But she goes on to say that


she thinks women would cheat if they don’t feel loved and desired by their spouse anymore, so by cheating, it’s not that they love the other man, but it might be just for self-esteem.
• Connie a saleswoman says that her boyfriend of five years started cheating on her behind her back, and it really hurt her because he cheated for the wrong reasons and she loved him with all her heart. Therefore, she concludes by saying that she thinks that men might cheat because they silently believe their spouse is sleeping with her workmates, male friends or any male she comes in contact with. She goes on to say that it is kind of a result of a very jealous but quiet guy, because her boyfriend was just that type, and that, instead of talking to her about his hurting and burdening feelings, he went on and cheated on her for the wrong reason.
On women’s side she said that they cheat because of
continuous hurt and heartbreaks from the relationship they’re in at the moment, and so that makes them cheat on their spouse subconsciously and then regret later when nothing changes in their rightful relationship or when she can’t beat the guilt of sleeping with that other guy who was not their spouse, and most especially a guy they didn’t even love, but were just in it for sexual pleasure, hence they feel whores in the process, and that really disgusts a woman, since women treasure their bodies no matter how much they may not say or show it.
• Diana K. K. a business woman (she owns her own grocery business) says men cheat because there are a lot of women who can never say “No” to men’s devious or genuine sexual advances. And so, she concludes that loose or indoor prostitute women or girls are responsible for men’s promiscuity.
On women she says that they cheat because they’re not sexually satisfied by their spouse or they have grown up in an environment or family where even their parents were loose in


matters concerning sex, and so they find it hard, psychologically, to beat the habit or trend, even when they’re married or find that man they really, really love: it’s all about sexual looseness she concludes.
• Diana Thomas a woman in the army says that men cheat because they feel macho, hence they look at women as a challenge, and so they have to overcome the challenge by getting her laid, and then it won’t be or seem a challenge to them anymore.
On women she says that they cheat because it’s convenient, point blank; women love their bodies, and so, if a man appreciates it more than their spouse, why not let the one with open eyes to the treasure have it anyway, So she opens her legs to joy, and bang, it’s done!
• Penny W. a doctor, says men cheat because of medical issues like impotence, fear of being barren, a sterile spouse, a dry spouse (less or nor virginal fluids for lubrication in the act of sex) and a spouse who is not good at self hygiene.
Whereas on women’s side she says that they would cheat for the same reasons too, but for them, they’re more patient and understanding than men.
• Desire a prostitute says men cheat on their spouse because they are poor in sexual techniques and tactics. She goes on to say that most women fight their men for all reasons but the right ones and never even give them enough time for sex, yet men are naturally sex pests, and so they will always find other options to satisfy their lack. She continues and says that men naturally love a wild girl in bed, verbally and physically, and so with a dull wife or girlfriend, they will seek refuge in the hands of wild or bad girls.
On women she says that they cheat because they think their man is not a right or proper match for them anyway, thus after


a year or two together, he still can’t find a stable job or he can’t trust her or he’s still financially and socially broke, so she will fly to fertile grounds.
• Rebecca a pastor says that men cheat because it’s from a selfish desire; she continues to say that selfish desires only consider one’s only satisfaction hence not giving a second thought about their spouse’s feelings, considerations, desires and suggestion. She goes on to say that with good communication between two people who love each other, a thought of cheating can be terminated, but without communication, bodily desires speak louder, and before one knows it, they’re sleeping with somebody who they shouldn’t be laying with.
She says that as men, that also applies to women too. And she concludes by saying that if we all trusted in God to guide our lives, and took his word as first priority in our lives, the devil wouldn’t have any place left for his playground in our relationships, sex-life, and life in general, but lack of the fear of the lord has blinded men into believing that they’re free to do anything with their bodies and their lives per se. But in the end, all wages of sin is death as we await judgment from God.
In the end all we do is meaningless, yet we prefer acting foolishly and have thus turned the world into a battle ground instead of a peaceful environment and world.


Men’s opinion on cheating


• Musician, Michael Tea says that men cheat because they’re presented with the opportunity to cheat, in other words, in presence of many honeys like bees, you can’t resist their sting. For women he says it’s just the loneliness that would get a woman in the pants of a man other than her rightful spouse.


• Track runner, Jimmy J. says that men cheat because they feel they have to, in other words, one girl becomes a bore and so a need for adventure knocks at the door where monotony is persistent, so cheating hatches. He goes on to say that although this doesn’t justify infidelity, it certainly goes to show that there is lack of enough communication between the couple, except from when she’s saying: “Jimmy I want money for: shopping, my hair and so on and so forth. It’s really wrecking, he concludes.
• Cosby M. an engineer says that men cheat to feel macho; he goes on to argue that women are soft beings and men are hard bodies, and so with that in mind, men find a place easier to make them more of men, in women, hence, by having multiple sexual conquests in their archive.
And on the women’s side Cosby says that women cheat because they are softly taken up by men who’re patient with them and know how to talk funny and sweet, in other words, he says, girls love candy, and once you give them candy, however long they resist, with a man’s funny and sweet persistence, they will fall in love and cheat, that’s for the hard ones though. But for the easy ones, it’s just a woman’s nature, they’re soft, and so, a soft romantic approach softens their hearts, and before the night is over, they’re in the bed of a guy they don’t even know their name.
• Company chairman, Dick D. M. says men cheat because they work a lot and get tired so helplessly, and so, much sex can be good for their brains to keep afloat and their bodies to be relaxed, he in other words says, a man will cheat on his long time spouse because she maybe so far away or not easy coming since she has known and been with him for a long time, so, an easy main squeeze nearby would help him beat off the stress easily than to wait for his wife or spouse make up their mind.


On the women’s part, Dick says that they (women) cheat because they most of the time think after they have done wrong, where their emotions set in, in other words he says women tend to do things that tap on their emotions subconsciously, and that makes them cheats and to feel so guilty that they, instead of correcting their misdoings, go deeper into it with guilty emotions submerging them into deeper shit.
• A politician, Corry P. says as men, they cheat because they can, and it’s known from ancient history that a man with a big family is a powerful man. He goes on to argue that although it doesn’t apply in these present days of financial hardship, it can’t be denied that men still hold power on earth, and so they will always conquer women’s bodies and hearts for many more centuries to come. He clearly states that men have the power and women will always follow.
On women cheating, he says it shouldn’t happen at all, because, first of all, women deserve utmost respect because they’re humanity’s mother, and therefore a mother should be a good example to all her children and society at large. Secondly, he says that women should accept that their ratio to men is wide enough for one man to have at least three to four women, and so, they (women) should just accept the facts and live with them, and not just go off cheating on their men just because of any damn reason; on this he continues and says that, even that man you think can conquer you (as a