How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #2) - DeYtH Banger, Clive Cooper (read me like a book .TXT) 📗

we mean by being carefree?


Other words to describe it would be:


Detached from the outcome.


Non-neediness.


Indifference.


Remember when we said earlier that the best way to impress a woman is by not trying to impress her at all?


Carefreeness is perfect to accomplish that. It means that you don’t care whether she’s impressed by you or not. You are indifferent to that fact. That doesn’t mean you don’t want her—it means you don’t need her.


Tip 1: How to impress a woman with mystery & carefreenessHere’s the situation: You are talking to a woman, and she asks you what you do for a living. Let’s look at two different responses.


The trying-to-impress-her answer:


“I’m a lawyer at Anderson & Anderson, and I’m about to become managing partner. That means I’ll be in charge of 200 people.”


The mysterious and carefree answer:


“I help people get what they are entitled to.”(Mysterious: it’s not easy to comprehend exactly what it is.)


“I also own an international drug trafficking ring.” (A light joke, showing you are carefree.)


Do you see the difference?


Which answer do you think is going trigger attraction?


The mysterious and carefree answer of course. It will make her curious and make her laugh at the same time. She’ll start asking questions to find out more about you.


Little by little, you disclose more. This way, she will find out by herself that you are an important person. She will think of you as the opposite of a bragger, and she will be really impressed.


Here’s a funny, carefree thing you can do when a woman asks for your name.


Instead of telling her your name, you say:“Brad… (wait until she says “Nice to meet you, Brad” and then you say)… Pitt.” You will probably get a laugh.


Many women will even playfully say, “Well, I’m Angelina Jolie”. Next, tell her your real name:“My name is John, actually. What’s your name?”


These are just some examples of what a carefree person would say. I hope these examples have helped you understand what we mean by impressing a woman by not trying to impress her.


Feel free to use these answers in your next conversations. That way, you will experience the impressing impact it has on women for yourself.


I hope you see this carefreeness is more than just using tricks. The key is to develop real carefreeness, and to become a carefree person. And when you do, you’ll automatically have these kinds of answers coming out of your mouth.


Women will be impressed by you and attracted to you like moths to the flame. The best part is that you didn’t come across as a “try hard”. Instead, you are mysterious and carefree.


Also, don’t worry—it won’t have any negative impact on the rest of your life. You’ll still be a responsible person. Being carefree is different from being careless.


Here is a list of more personality and character traits that impress women:


Dominance Adventurous Humor (especially cocky humor) Confidence Chivalry Being calm, cool & collected Being comfortable in your own skin Having a strong frame Being unaffected Social intelligence Sexuality Having an abundance mindset Decisiveness Intelligence Leadership

Show a woman any of these characteristics and she will be impressed. Unfortunately, I can’t go into all of them in detail here.


But if you want to develop these character traits, the best way to go is through personal coaching.


Would you like a FREE coaching session on how to impress women, become more carefree, and build these attractive character traits?


In this FREE session, I’ll build you a customized dating blueprint to help you take your dating life to the next level, so that ultimately you can find, get, and keep the woman of your dreams.

 

 

 

 2. How To Impress A Woman With Your PowersBy “powers” I mean three things: your skills, your influence and your real power.


Women are impressed (attracted) by men who have good skills. The great thing is it doesn’t matter what that skill is. If you are talented at something, she will be attracted to you.


Look at how women are attracted to artists. Many artists are broke, but they have skills, and women are attracted to that. That’s because skills means potential. Women love men with potential, even if they are broke.


Women are also attracted to men with influence and power.


And again, if you have influence and power, leverage that strength and learn how to use it to impress women.


Be careful, though—if you use it in the wrong way, it won’t work. Just like bragging about your job has the opposite effect, the same is true for power.


If you don’t have power and influence, you might want to focus on your skills. Here’s how to do it. Make sure to invite women to places where you can show them your skills.


For example, if you are great at playing the piano, invite her to one of your concerts.


It doesn’t need to be a big concert. It can be a small one in a small establishment. It’s the fact that she sees your skill in action that matters.


But what if I don’t have a skill set that I can show off with?


Well, I have some good news for you, because…


Here’s an unexpected skill set you can excel at to impress women: dating skills.


Yes, you read that right. Dating skills will impress women. A skill is a skill, and when you excel at something, women will be attracted.


The advantage of dating skills is that you can show them off anywhere and anytime.


How to impress a woman with dating skillsHere’s an example of a crucial dating skill: deep bonding. Knowing how to structure a conversation to create a deep bond with women is a crucial skill to impress them. And you can learn it!


Imagine the following. You are mysterious and carefree. She’s impressed by it. You stand out from all the wimps that try to impress her and that put her on a pedestal. She’s totally attracted to you.


Now imagine that you are also capable of taking conversations to a deeper level, and connecting with her in a way that nobody else can.


How impressed do you think she will be? You’re the total package! Cool and carefree like James Dean, AND able to go deep and create a soulmate bond with her.


So how do you do it?


Tip 2: How to take any conversation topic and go deeper - talk about her past.It goes like this: she tells you something about herself, and you use that topic to go deeper by going into her past.


For example, let’s say she tells you she’s an architect. You could say. “Not bad. Tell me, have you wanted to be an architect since you were a little girl?” 


She’ll now tell you about what she wanted to be when she was a little girl.


The fact that she does that makes both of you more connected to each other.


This is because you are now talking about her past, and that’s not something people do unless they’ve known each other for a longer time.


By knowing how to speed up the process to talk about things that only very close people talk about, you actually form a deep bond much more quickly.


Now, guess what she will think if you had a conversation like this? She’ll feel like she’s known you her whole life after talking for just 30 minutes. She’ll get that soulmate feeling.


Talking about the past is just one technique you can use to stand out and create a deep bond. But, be warned! Don’t make the mistake of taking every subject she talks about back to her past. That would be weird.


There are many other techniques you can use to have deep bonding conversations with women. And deep bonding is just one dating skill, but there are many more.

 

 

 

 

3. How To Impress A Woman With Your PresentationFirst, let’s define what we mean by your presentation.


Most people think that presentation is about being good-looking, but it’s much more than that. Your presentation is the overall impression and perception that she has of you.


That perception is made up by what she can observe about you and what she hears about you (your reputation).


I’ll give you an overview of everything that has an impact on your presentation later in this article.


First, I’d like to focus on what is the most important part of your presentation. And it’s not being good-looking. In fact, women are not impressed by good looks.


They are impressed by good body language. That’s right—body language is what triggers attraction.


In fact, even if you are a good-looking guy, if you have weak body language you will be unattractive to women.


If you want to know what body language really impresses women, think about James Dean. You don’t need to like his films or his acting skills, but he’s definitely the king of carefree body language.


Tip 3: A simple but powerful body language trick to impress women.Here’s a great body language tip you can use when you’re at a restaurant, a club, a bar, or in any other venue.


When you are talking to a woman, make sure to maneuver yourself so that you have a wall behind you and the room in front of you.


It’s even better if you can lean against something, like a piece of furniture, the wall, or the bar.


But the main thing is that you want the room, all the other people, and the woman you are talking to in front of you.


Why does that impress women?


Many reasons.


First of all, it puts you in a power position. This goes back a long time in history, and it’s something that is hard-wired in us.


Throughout history, the highest-status person was always positioned with a wall behind him, and the room and crowd in front of him.


Think of the king sitting in his throne. He has a wall behind him and the room before him. That was to make sure nobody could attack him by surprise.


Throughout our evolution, that position has been associated with power. We are pre-wired to think like that.


When you position yourself like this, people will unconsciously think you are the most powerful man in the venue. And as you know, women are very attracted to men with power.


Secondly, when you talk to a woman from this position, she will be facing you with her back towards the crowd.


To all the other women in the room it looks like she’s chatting you up. That makes them even more attracted to you.


That’s the power of knowing how to present yourself.


Here are all the presentation elements that automatically impress women:

Body language Social status Entourage Pre-selection Fashion and style Grooming Haircut Good looks Your body

So there you have it, my friend—you now know the only three ways to impress women: presentation, powers, and personality.


And as always, take action. Don’t just read this, do something with it. Your dreams will only come true if you take action.

 

 

 

Chapter 3 - Secret (Part 2)

 Be a crazy fucker!

 

 

Note: In the beginning everyone (The Male figure... - in this case).... cares to much and gives fuck to much and tries to impress the woman...

 

 

 

P.S.: People should be more creative in conversations.

 

 

 

 

6 Ways to Build Attraction and Connection During Conversations

 

 

 

 

By the worlds #1 dating coach for Introverted Men - Nick Neeson.
 I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me how to behave with women.


Many of those questions focus on conversations.


I thought I’d share six ways that I feel are VITAL to have a natural, free-flowing conversation with women you’ve just met.

 

 

 

1. Have a set of requirements.