Brain on Porn (Social #2) - DeYtH Banger (a book to read TXT) 📗
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a pack of depression... + little anxiety as sugar... anxious juice...
and bottoms up.
It's not some kinda junky proverb... if something is proverb... it should be the whole life is a senless... self-dustruction of humanity..
It's 2018 and depression is all over the world... making to think about makes me to feel bad about myself but here is the thing.
It's my reality show... so the next victim of depression is going to be you...
It's so funny that people can nervs from nothing... get depressed from too much humanity - so the whole truth is that... internet is full of truthness... not with lies... and truth kills all type of confidence... What happens after 18 years of freedom and then work?
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It's low self-steem position...
which in other words
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Can fuck... but more fuckeable
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So he likes to become a victim
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The new generation is the victimilogy list...
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So the counting continues
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Death over-writes everything
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But pissing on myself... creates by itself relaxtion... so I fucking love it
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I ain't faggot
I ain't gay
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I just love the joy of freedom... of yellowish... life.
And in the end we end up in the sink...
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God Bless you all
Words (Depression Part 3)
by DeYtH Banger
04/16/2018
Everything starts from words,...
Setences = WordsShort Stories = WordsLife = WordsVideos = Words
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Everything is made within words, so
does depression, it starts from a simple thought.
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Disease, microbes, flesh eating syndromes... or whatever fucking goes next.Facts are real depression,films can make you depressed.
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You need enough info to focus you on and then on and onand it continues.
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From "IF" to "THEN"
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From possibility to "LIABILITY"
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I am not a liar, I am just honest wih your wowrds can destroy you.
Crying
by DeYtH Banger
04/18/2018
Crying like a bitch...
WaaaaWaaaaa...
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I am piece of shit
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Peace for shirtless tests
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Waaaa,waaaaa
Should I cry?
Is it irrational the whole thing to cry
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Emotions are luggage.
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Waaaaaaaaaaa, Waaaaaaaaaaaaa
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaa, Waaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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Life will stop you,
Life will kill you,
Life is going to waste you the same way...
How you wasted your life.
Warsaw.. .. and Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Warsaw
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Getting upset
Getting low self-eSteem
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Somebody in the end fucking around, why
Do we care so much what other think about:
- Us
- Our Opinions
- Our Answers
- Our life
- Our Way of living
- Our Questions
WHYYYYYYYYYYYY!?
Wacky
by DeYtH Banger
04/18/2018
Life is wacky,
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Always focusing on what others
- Say about us
- Think about us
We seem never to get out of our comfort done?
WHYYYYY?
FUCKING WHY?
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Here is WHY!
It's because of the group which is around us, we seem never to have the guts to do something which is out of our zone.
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Life is going to put you in depressive state,
And put that spike right in your ass.
Note: Stop for a second (Not Really a second!)
How to Stop Overthinking Everything and Find Peace of Mind
We all overthink aspects of our lives. Whether it's decisions, regrets, self-worth, or general worries about the future, we're so often stuck inside our own heads that it feels like there's no way out. Here's how to quit overthinking everything and move on.
Why We Overthink
When we talk about overthinking, we're talking about a couple of different things. On one hand, overthinking is when you get caught in those loops where you're just thinking about one single event over and over. You might start over analyzing something that happened, regretting an action you took, or worrying about the future of something. On the other hand, you can overthink decisions in a similar way. Here, you'll often analyze them into the ground to the point where you can't make a decision anymore.
Either way, overthinking is basically when you can't think about anything else, and it's affecting your life in a negative way. The end goal here is the same: get out of that thinking loop and move on.
Take Action Now
If you're overthinking an idea you can actually do something about, the best thing you can do is take action now. This doesn't mean you have to suddenly run off to make something, it just means you start taking a step forward.
For example, let's say you're considering moving to a new city. You can't move immediately, but if you sit and think about the process, you're going to go around in circles in your head. So, it's important to do something. In this case, you can start planning. Make a list of where you want to go. Start researching housing prices, jobs, and whatever else. Create a financial plan and goals. Write out a timeline. It doesn't matter what you do, you just need to make a move toward the idea you're overthinking. Making those plans and comparisons may even help you make your decision
Moving is a pretty simplistic example, but the basic process works for everything you're overthinking related to your own future—from quitting a job to asking someone out on date—you can draw up a plan of action to make yourself feel better.
Writing for the Huffington Post, author Bob Miglani sums up this idea:
One tip that I've learned that did more than detox my mind from overthinking is to turn my often worrisome thoughts about the future into effort and work. Taking action, doing something, working on your craft does wonders for your soul.
Each time I would start getting worried about the future, I would make a proactive choice to physically get up from the place I was sitting and walk to the computer to start writing or working on my book. Sometimes I would go outside to work on planting the tomatoes in my vegetable garden. If I was at work during the day, I started writing ideas on how to improve my work or work on something really interesting. Whatever the work or project we choose — make sure it is a difficult one because that's when we start to get flow or momentum. That's the place where so much of our success happens.
As we've pointed out before, getting started is everything , and that's a big part when you're overthinking projects. We tend to overthink because we fear failure, but if we just start working, that dissipates quickly.
Direct Your Attention Elsewhere
Sometimes, you can't take action, and the only thing you can do to get past overthinking an idea is to distract your mind. Find a hobby, task, or activity that engages your mind. When you're doing this, you allow yourself to put off overthinking and eventually those thoughts start to disappear.
Personally, I usually go for exercise during these moments. Like getting deep into a project, exercise can shut your brain down for brief periods of time so you can just relax without your stupid thoughts bothering you. Author Haruki Murakami describes this feeling as "the void" in his book,
What I Talk About When I Talk About Running:
I just run. I run in a void. Or maybe I should put it another way: I run in order to acquire a void. But as you might expect, an occasional thought will slip into this void. People's minds can't be a complete blank. Human beings' emotions are not strong or consistent enough to sustain a vacuum. What I means is, the kinds of thoughts and ideas that invade my emotions as I run remain subordinate to that void. Lacking content, they are just random thoughts that gather around that central void.
When I'm criticized unjustly, or when someone I'm sure will understand me doesn't, I go running for a little longer than usual. By running longer it's like I can physically exhaust that portion of my discontent. It also makes me realize again how weak I am, how limited my abilities are. I become aware, physically, of these low points... I quietly absorb the things I'm able to, releasing them later, and in as changed a form as possible...
Of course, exercise isn't the only way to do this. Throwing yourself into anything can usually produce what Murakami refers to as the "void." It's that place where your mind is close to blank and you're just concentrating on what you're doing. For me, exercise has always been my go-to for this because I can force it with exercise. If I'm overthinking something, it's hard for me to get invested in anything else. My mind's too distracted and I'm too paralyzed with the annoyance of having an idea pop into my line of thought all the time to dive into anything too productive. So, like Murakami, I run until my mind's as empty as possible.
For others, meditation is a great way to calm your overthinking brain , but it can backfire if you're not in a good space. Likewise, most techniques to deal with anxiety , like listening to music or practicing personal rituals help distract you from your thoughts.
Stop Talking About It
When faced with the type of difficult decision that causes most of us to overthink, it's natural to seek out advice from others. This usually means we talk through a problem with so many people that it's impossible not to overthink.
As we've pointed out before , too many cooks in the kitchen leads to poor decision making. As you talk with more people and get more data, you get more confused, which leads to more overthinking. Psychology Today explains what's going on in your brain:
The human mind hates uncertainty. Uncertainty implies volatility, randomness, and danger. When we notice information is missing, our brain raises a metaphorical red flag and says, "Pay attention. This could be important..." When data is missing, we overestimate its value. Our mind assumes that since we are expending resources locating information, it must be useful.
We all want to get details and information from other people, but at a certain point it stops being helpful. When we limit information, we can look at it more productively. Psychologist Gerd Gigerenzer refers to this as the "take the best" strategy:
"Take the best" means that you reason and calculate only as much as you absolutely have to; then you stop and do something else. So, for example, if there are 10 pieces of information that you might weigh in a thorough decision, but one piece of information is clearly more important than the others, then that one piece of information is often enough to make a choice. You don't need the rest; other details just complicate things and waste time.
Even if you're overthinking an event that happened to you, your relationship with your significant other, or a mistake at work, limiting how many people you talk with can help make the process better.
Figure Out Why You're Overthinking
Sometimes, we overthink because we can. We'll get caught in a loop where we're recreating an event over and over, or attempting to analyze an idea from every perspective imaginable. After hours of thinking and days of no sleep, we'll often get nowhere. Psychology Today suggests that even though our brains are often hard-wired to overthink, you can move the process along a little. Here's their definition of the problem:
Whether it's worrying about social interactions, our self-worth, our future, our families or something else, overanalyzing in these repetitive ways is exhausting and rarely leads to a productive or helpful outcome. Rather, we waste time overthinking events, ourselves, actions, people's intentions or thoughts, or repeatedly trying to plan for all potential future outcomes, even though most times none of those scenarios ever play out...
One of our biggest challenges - and why we keep reminding people
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