Brain on Porn (Social #1) - DeYtH Banger (uplifting book club books .txt) 📗

masturbating... you finish in the next hour... the hour which is the next hour of the next.... you start feeling guilty...

 

shame... that's when and depression comes

 

YOu see that:

Which is not really what porn model really looks like

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The porn world is fulfilled with disgusting fantasies  + doing fucked up shit.

 

 

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He: He played with her pussy... he started sucking it... he touched his dick .... then he started touching her then kissing her  - Ughhh disgusting

- His dick is dirty, the same goes and for the pussy... come on... dick and pussy piss... nothing clean about that

 

 

 

She: Her facial expression is like she getting sexually abused first, she puts the dick in the mouth - FUCK , SHE TOUCHES HERSELF... after touching the dick, she touches her hair after playing with the dick. - Ughh... nobody cleans himself upp... parasites... all over them.

 

 

 

 

 

Most of the pornstars gets often starving and abused

 

- If this is not enough listen

 

 

YOU JERK OFF OR MASTURBATE WHILE YOU WATCH WOMEN WHICH AREN'T REALLY WOMEN, ARE TEENS WHICH TEENS ARE PROBABLY AROUND

 

15-16 YEARS OLD KIDS... - THIS CALLED HUMAN TRAFFICKING

 

PROMISE FOR A GOOD LIFE, BUT IN THE END...

 

- FACIAL ABUSE

- FUCKED UP LIFE

- ENDLESS CYCLE

- SHAME

- GUILT

- CAN'T QUIT

 

 

 

 

AND IT'S LIKE:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saying: This here image is like okay... I gonna do it...

 

 

But this image isn't as the female enjoying what she is doing

 

 

 

 

But when you don't have education, money... you gonna end up there

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YOu think is great... until you end up in room 101... - Gruesome and disgusting things, that's the room which makes you vomit.

 

And so far in this images.. .above... there is piss, vomit and cum

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It's too much!

 

 

 

And what's good in watching... blowjob with vomit - Disgusting as hell!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Comedy therapy: laughter is the best medicine

 

 

Recent research shows most mental health issues are the result of a genetic predisposition coupled with a triggering event. The triggering event is subjective. In other words, neither you nor I have to agree that a given incident causes addiction, depression, or anxiety—it's all relative. Clinically, "triggers" are also subjective. Best-case scenario: if you have a genetic predisposition, avoid the triggering event. The question is, can we avoid external pressures that may cause anxiety? To some degree yes, but truth be told, we don't know how we will react to a situation until it happens. For instance, the clinical definition of trauma is not what you or I consider traumatic. Trauma is subjective. If I feel traumatized by a hangnail, clinically I am experiencing "trauma." The best way to cope with anxiety pre or post triggering event is to shift our point of view (P.O.V.) and change the way we view the world. As a comedian, I take situations that scare me, make me angry or sad, and turn them into a joke. Shifting the way we view an event can change our experience of the event.

As a woman, it's hard not to feel like there is an unspoken and horribly outdated contract when a man takes me out on a date—this defunct notion that the more money he spends on me, the more obligated I feel to have sex with him. Intellectually, I realize having sex is never an obligation; it is a subjective choice. Emotionally, I dread a possible negative reaction if sexual activity is not the outcome of our date. The act of dating triggers my anxiety, so I wrote a joke about it:

"A guy thinks if he picks us up in a nice car, buys us a meal, and takes us to a show he is actually upping his chances for getting laid. Let me bust this myth wide open, guys. We decide if you're getting laid way before the date begins. We decide if you're getting laid while we are putting our underwear on. If we're wearing the granny panties up to our waist and the bra with the safety pin that holds the whole apparatus together we don't care where you take us, what you feed us or what you drive us in, we are not having sex. But if we're wearing that thong thing up our butt all evening, honey, you can take us to a tractor pull. You are getting screwed."

Sexual tension is a common cause of anxiety. Through humor, I can shift my P.O.V. and remind myself that I am in control of the situation, which helps the experience seem less daunting.

 

Teaching Comedy as a Tool for Overcoming Anxiety

 

I believe we can ameliorate or eradicate anxiety and depression by shifting their worldview, otherwise known as an individual's perspective of the world. I am teaching stand-up comedy to at-risk teenage boys. One of my students, let's call him "B," wrote a joke about Crips and Bloods, which are rival gangs in his neighborhood. His premise: ice cream trucks naming flavors that resonate with kids from his neighborhood. Hip Hopsicle, Red Dye #2 and Crips (blue). As a 16-year-old boy living in an area with high gang activity, B is threatened by gang members on a daily basis. Does his reality change after writing these jokes? No, but he doesn't have to be overtaken by anxiety.

 

Another student, "D," talks about "hating second dates because that's when you have to meet the parents." D talks about picking up his girlfriend only to have her father say she can't go out with him. D knows full well it is a hard sell to have a father allow his precious daughter to go out with a self-proclaimed "poor black kid from the ghetto." The anticipation of a negative experience is anxiety provoking. Shifting his P.O.V. by making it funny allows him to laugh at the snap judgments born out of prejudice. D is able to normalize his experience and put it in the past as a humorous event. D talks about the father yelling at him in Spanish. D has no idea what the father is saying, but everything sounds like he's offering something to eat. Every word he hears sounds like food. In his joke, D has no idea he is being berated. All the venom spewed by his girlfriend's father is lost on him.

 

The Science of Comedy and Anxiety

 

Simon Wiesenthal, Austrian writer and Holocaust survivor, once said, "Humor is the weapon of unarmed people: it helps people who are oppressed to smile at the situation that pains them." We have emotional triggers that cause happiness, sadness, anger, and fear. Once those triggers are tripped we fall into patterns of behavior hoping to alleviate negative emotions. A trigger causing fear and anxiety may cause us to want to become violent. The more we experience anxiety the more we may use violence to provide a feeling of comfort. Neuropathways are literal ruts in our brains which make it easy for us to fall into a pattern of behavior. Changing the neuropathway is difficult. For example, in scary, anxiety provoking events we have to create a reward that trumps the comfort we feel when we physically defend ourselves. The reward of making someone laugh is more enjoyable than resorting to physical violence. Many comedians were bullied as kids and used humor as their defense mechanism. When people laugh it changes the experience for everyone. Pleasing chemicals are released in the brain such as Dopamine.

My work with at risk teenage boys is an ongoing process. As a pilot project, we have learned a lot. The good news: there is already a shift in the way these boys handle themselves. They are more playful and less anxious. Their anxiety triggers are still around them but they have learned ways to change their point of view.

 

 

 

 

 Porn is:

 

1) Forced Smile

2) Forced Orgasm

3) Insane 

4) Too bad... to feel good

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How pregnancy loss can increase the risk for anxiety disorders

 

 

 

 

 

While most pregnancies result in the birth of a healthy baby, up to 15% of births result in a miscarriage, and another 1-2% of women have a late pregnancy loss before delivery (stillbirth) or an early infant death in the first month after birth. While we know these losses can be devastating for families, there have not been many formal studies examining whether women with stillbirth or early infant death are at high risk for clinical mental health disorders, particularly anxiety disorders. Mental health problems like anxiety can have serious health effects on these women, and these disorders are often not properly recognized, diagnosed, or treated.

 

Assessing Anxiety Risk in Women Who Have Faced Pregnancy Loss

 

Since stillbirth and early infant death ("perinatal death") are often traumatic experiences, my team and I wanted to measure how frequently women with these losses developed symptoms of mental health disorders on top of their grief. We worked with the Michigan Department of Community Health to survey 900 women in Michigan who had a perinatal death (stillbirth or early infant death), and 500 women who had given birth to a healthy live infant. We asked these women about how they were coping with these experiences, and assessed their mental health symptoms.

My team and I also made sure to take into account outside factors which could influence the risk of anxiety disorders: a woman might have clinical depression or past mental health disorders, limited social support from friends and family, or partner violence, among other problems. We included those details in the analysis so we could see if anxiety was due to the perinatal loss or if it could be explained by one of these other factors.

 

Pregnancy Loss Can Double the Risk of Clinically-Significant Anxiety Disorders

 

Our study showed that even when we considered all of these other risks, mothers with a perinatal death were still twice as likely as non-bereaved mothers to have symptoms of Social Anxiety Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder nine months after their loss. However, they were not any more likely to have Panic Disorder or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.

Sadly, of all the women who met criteria for any of these anxiety disorders, only about a quarter were getting any type of treatment (such as counseling, medication, group therapy, or other treatment). This percentage highlights a critical shortcoming and indicates a current lack of proper care for women who have faced pregnancy loss. Recognizing that women with stillbirth and infant death can also be at higher risk for some anxiety disorders can help us develop ways to better help women who have a loss.

 

What You Can Do to Cope with Pregnancy Loss

 

Find the time and space to heal. Recovering from an experience like this takes time. Finding time and space to grieve is critical, and healing is different for everyone. Large life changes, like a move or a new job, may not be the best idea immediately following a pregnancy loss when your life may feel upside down. You and your partner may cope with grief in different ways, and this is also normal. Create memories of your baby. Some families may receive items from the hospital to help them remember their baby—locks of hair, footprints, a cap the baby wore, or photos. Other families choose to have a memorial or remembrance service after a loss or have a family gathering on the anniversary. Finding a way to help others who have been through this experience may be therapeutic, like through donations to research or to funds to help bereaved families. On an anniversary, you may choose to plant a tree or a garden. Even if you didn't do any of these things when your baby died, you can still go back, even