How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #4) - DeYtH Banger (list of ebook readers TXT) 📗

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Thank you for reading this blog post about how to be happy

 

I hope you enjoyed this video on how to be happy, or more importantly you recognize the obviousness of the truth. That simply, you want to be happy and thoughts create unhappiness. So you have to address thoughts – there’s no way around that.

 

Chapter 10 - Tips

 If you have problems with pornography here is what will help 99% guarantee... 

 

1) Open one set of window and load porn (Turn it on) - Start watching it (Let it make you horny... let it make you feel the feeling of wanting to masturbate)

2) Open 2-3... sets of windows load more porn (Turn it on) - Start watching it (Let it make you horny... let it make you feel the feeling of wanting to masturbate)

3) Don't do anything put your hands on your desk or whatever place... but away from your dick 

 

 

This here are tips for guys

 

 

 

 

 

4) The moment you can't hold yourself and you want to play with your dick... now it's the time to start making yourself...

5) More tired..

 

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Exercise... exercise... exercise... until you get tired

push-ups

pull-ups

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ANd whatever comes to your mind or Parkour exercise... practice and practice

 

 

 

 

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Be Observant... observe and observe... what is she wearing... what is he wearing ask them about it... ask them if's and why's...

 

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Don't be like others be different... try to leave the whole conversation with a positive impact.... 

Chapter 10.1. - It's Not Rejection

 It's not rejection if you are having fun and the person who rejected had fun with you... your goal is to leave an impact. If you are having fun with the crew with which you are doing the pick up thing is great... but if you are working with a crew which has no idea about Mr. Nice Guy (Aka Needy) and Mr. BadBoy (Who is he and how he gets there)... and they are more like nice with girls and do nice stuff and expect stuff from girls this crew is going dump you in the trash.

 

First because they have no idea about how everything works, they don't know how to make sombody to invest  in something, they don't have the same goals and what could happen.... and people like this type are having obsession... because they know that they can't pull out the same trick to other girl... it's just not possible for them... it's just happen like a miracle.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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P.S. - So go outside and apply theory... practice and practice and then go home after all this field and analysis.

 

 

 

Note: It's awesome to be weird... that's what is going to push you.... along the way.

 

 

 

Note: Always it's time for constant action... get somebody who is going to put you in pressure... you don't want the best seducer the best in dating world... you need somebody who isn't stopped from anything... I mean... somebody who doesn't care if he does get rejected... he likes to try... that's who you need.

 

 

 

 

Chapter 10.2 - Spot LIGHT

 Conversation Skills For Rebels

 

 

 

Its time for a revolution in conversation skills advice. We’ve been misled by the existing “regime” and I’m here to set you all straight.

“People will never forgive you (if they even notice you) for being boring.”-Fredrik EklundA Rundown of Conventional Conversation Advice

As a verbal skills coach, I get numerous e-mails and messages every month from readers and subscribers asking me how to improve their conversation skills.

It seems like many people are struggling with this area of verbal skills. And, yet we wonder why?

 

The conventional wisdom about conversation advice and conversation skills is just flat out incorrect.

 

Everywhere you look, Reader’s Digest, Time Magazine, AskMen, Fast Company, you will find half-baked, virtually useless advice.

So, let me recap for you the conventional conversation advice that is out there, tips that I’m sure most of you have heard before (and maybe even tried):

1. Be interested in others.

2. Be a good listener.

3. Ask lots of questions.

4. Know and use interesting conversation topics and conversation starters.

5. Talk about and share your passions and interests.

6. Tell stories.

7. Be polite and inoffensive.

8. Have “deep conversations”.

I’m sure you’ve seen and read these bits of advice many times, right?

And, I bet you even tried quite a few of these tips in your real life conversations.

Now, after you used these tips, did your conversational skills actually improve? Most importantly, did your conversations themselves get better?

Probably not, right?

 

Conventional conversation advice is fine and dandy…IF you want to be a MEDIOCRE conversationalist and have SUBPAR conversation skills.

 

I sure don’t and I bet neither do you. We don’t do mediocre around here.

Why Conventional Conversation Advice Sucks

Let me debunk for you each of the eight common conversation tips that I laid out above:

 

1. Be interested in others

 

While it is not wrong to be interested in other people and their lives, how does this advice actually improve your own conversation skills?

The reality: What this advice does is transform you into a passive participant in a conversation, but it sure doesn’t make you into a better conversationalist.

 

2. Be a good listener.

 

Similar to the first tip, this advice does not make you a better conversationalist and it also makes you a passive participant. I hate these first two tips the most because they are probably the two most well known conversation “tips”, yet all they do is to make you into someone who places the burden of making conversation on other people.

 

Don’t ever put the burden of making conversation on others.

 

You need to start taking OWNERSHIP of every conversation that you get in from here on out, and that means going far beyond mere listening.

 

3.  Ask lots of questions.

 

Somebody who asks lots of questions in conversation is most likely somebody who has nothing to say, no value to give, and again, burdens others with the responsibility of leading the conversation.

You may think that by asking aimless questions, you are leading a conversation. You may think that by asking lots of questions, that you are showing that you care about other people’s opinions, interests, and lives.

But, this is not the case.

 

4. Know and use interesting conversation topics and conversation starters.

 

While this is not terrible advice, the problem with memorizing “good” conversation topics and conversation starters is that it lacks flexibility.

There is no such thing as a bulletproof conversation topic or conversation starter.

A topic that seems interesting to you could be like a sleeping pill to someone else. A conversation starter may work well in one situation, but be completely useless in another.

Knowing “good” topics and starters is not the panacea you may think it is.

Instead, you need to know how to take any topic, even the most mundane topic, and weave it into an interesting, fun, and exciting conversation.

 

 

5. Talk about and share your passions and interests.

 

 

Just like “good” conversation topics, sharing your passions and interests have the same fundamental problem. Your interests may not be other people’s interests.

Even more egregious than that, when you talk too much about your passions and interests, especially in an aimless way, the conversation becomes a one-way street and not a two-way exchange.

The greatest conversationalists can conjure up a great conversation without talking about themselves or any “good” conversation topic.

 

Great conversationalists can make something (great) out of nothing.

 

Great conversationalists can make something (great) out of nothing.

 

6. Tell stories.

 

It is all the rage right now to hear advice about how you “should tell stories”.

Yes, stories can be quite fascinating and interesting.

However, as with anything else, most people take things to extremes and they will tell stories aimlessly or go so far with their storytelling that it becomes a one-way street (just like people talking about their passions and interests).

It is okay to tell stories, but only when stories serve a specific purpose within the context of a conversation, and not just for the sake of telling stories.

 

7. Be polite and inoffensive.

Being too polite, politically correct, and inoffensive is the biggest killer of a dynamic conversation.

I can’t think of a type of conversation I dislike more than one where all the participants are afraid to say anything even remotely edgy.

 

I think I’d rather listen to someone’s rambling, pointless story than to participate in a conversation where nobody is willing to take any risk and is content to have a completely vanilla conversation.

 

 

8. Have “deep conversations”.

 

Some people like to think “deep conversations” are the best and only kind of conversations that people should have.

I completely disagree.

At least 95% of the time, I prefer to have a different type of conversation than a “deep conversation”, which you will learn about now.

 

Eight Principles For Conversation Revolutionaries

 

 

I don’t know about you, but I’m so done with conventional conversation advice.

 

Go ahead and cling to this gospel if you think this advice helps you. It never helped me at all.

My conversation skills never improved when I followed this advice. All it led me to have was mundane, uninteresting conversations with people, including those with girls.

Look: If you want to actually have interesting, fun, and exciting conversations with other people, its not actually that difficult. But you have to discard the nonsense about conversation skills that other people feed you.

Look: If you want to actually have interesting, fun, and exciting conversations with other people, its not actually that difficult. But you have to discard the nonsense about conversation skills that other people feed you.

 

It’s time for a revolution in conversational skills!

Let’s talk about how we can overthrow the conventional wisdom on conversation skills. Instead of conforming the existing “regime”, it’s time to rebel and create a new paradigm for conversations.

 

Damn you Dale Carnegie!

 

So, here are the eight principles for conversation revolutionaries that I want you to memorize if you want to EXCEL at conversation skills and become someone that EVERYBODY wants to talk to and have conversations