How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #1) - DeYtH Banger (latest ebook reader .txt) 📗

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Here are 3 easy steps for making plans…

Get her to commit again: “Do you want to hang out sometime this week?” Find a day: “What nights are you free?” Suggest a plan: “Let’s meet at X bar for drinks. Does 8 or 9 work for you?”

At this point, you have successfully scheduled a date.

I recommend getting drinks for the first date, because it’s cheaper and less time investment than dinner or most other ideas. Plus, sitting side-by-side at a bar is an easy, low pressure environment for chatting and flirting.

 

 

PHASE III: The First Date Blueprint

 

 

 

#1: Confirm, Confirm, Confirm

 

If you don’t confirm your date, there is a high chance of flaking.

Humans are creatures of habit. If we can find an excuse to avoid attending an event, there’s a good chance we’ll take it. And girls are no exception to this rule.

You need to check-in and confirm the date MULTIPLE times…

The night before: “Hey Julia, hope your weeks going well. We still good for tomorrow at 9?” And again the afternoon of the date: “Hey see you at 9 tonight”

Following up is so crucial because it makes the plan feel REAL in her mind. It also makes it harder for her to justify being lazing and flaking. By simply sending these 2 messages, you will almost guarantee she shows up.

 

#2: Hug Her Immediately

 

First impressions are crucial — wear a sharp outfit and hug her as soon as she arrives.

Don’t hesitate and wait to see what she’s going to do. Don’t give her a handshake. Take the lead and get the date started on the right foot. This will avoid awkwardness and make both of you feel comfortable together.

I know this sounds basic, but honestly getting the small stuff right is more than half the battle. Put yourself in a good position to succeed, and the rest of the night will be easy.

 

#3: Keep the Conversation Focused on Her

 

Ok, so what are some easy conversation topics you can use on the date?

Simple. Keep the majority of the conversation focused on her…

Find out what she is passionate about Discover her most exciting stories Make guesses what shes likes (in a flirtatious way)

When you consistently drive the conversation towards her, it makes it a lot easier to think of things to say. Plus, people love talking about themselves so it will be fun and engaging for her as well.

 

RECAP: How to Talk to Girls

 

The best way to talk to girls is to be honest and keep things moving forward.

You should always ask her out as soon as possible to steer clear of the friend-zone and avoid wasting your time. When texting, always set the date up as soon as possible so you can actually hang out with her in person.

And finally, when you’re on the date, keep the conversation focused on her passions and experiences. She will love talking about herself, and also quickly become curious about you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chapter 4 - Self-Criticize

 Is Awful thing, the moment you do it you start losing all chance and you start focusing all your mind on past events. The moment you do that the moment it gets horrible and horrible.


You could be saying:

- "Hey"
- "You suck"
- "Cool T-Shirt"

But you end up with

What if "…" that happen
It already "…" that happen


Past judges your future and you are and in the past and the future. How about the


FUCKING

"NOW"


…

NO present, the moment you become less present you become a freak and a creep.

Note: Yo I am not the fucked up guy, you are the fucked up guy… you give more fucks than any other person on this earth.


You are a self-conscious bitch.

You could be doing some cool work… but your excuses are upon some conclusion.

Chapter 5 - School Sucks

 It really sucks.. . No Need to say it in 3000 words.

School system is:

Study...

Memorize..
And

Apply



…

Neglection and less being yourself is school.

It's a place where labels play big role.

Like for example:

- Nerds
- Geeks
- Stupid
- Awkward
- BadAsses
- Weak
- Noobs


…

And etc.


The labels can go and go and go and go and go and go.

They are endless loop…

Once you get in this loop it's fucking hard to get out. Because believing in labels lowers your status… if you have lower status… you ain't gonna go and talk with a girl which is in rate category:

10/10
Or

9/10

Or

8/10

7/10

…

You could be going for a girl which is lower than 6/10 category.


…


If you want to get progress stop with the lies and labels which you say to yourself.

- DeYtH Banger

Part - 3

 

Chapter 6 - Excuses - NO ACTION

 The pure negativity stops from action…. I won't do that because:

He/She

- He is eating
- He is not alone
- He is walking
- He is with his parents
- He is going to laugh
- He is going to me fuck me around


Or

- She is badass
- She could have a bitch shield
- She won't like me
- She is way fucking way better than me…
- She will hate me

…


And the list could go on and on and on and on and on

….


All this here excuses or procrastinating reasons are just a way showing.

- "Too much giving fuck"
- "Too much caring"
- "Wayyy wayyy fucking too much attachment"


…

She is going to hate you - So what?
You can't change that?

(Note: If you want to be realistic… stop with brain FUCKING illusions and go out and do it…)

Stop saying:

- I can do it… when time comes I will know what to do (Now is the time… and this sounds like procrastination as to me.)

- I can't (You want to try something and you fill your brain with words which delete and stop all type of action)

…


If you want to succeed…


Clap few times and go for it…


- I did it… I can so do you can.

Chapter 7 - Reasons and Faces

Faces are awful…

…

If you start thinking on what's going to happen out of your control…

You start giving way too much fuck.


Social Media = Give a fuck media (In Short)


…

It's time to stop being a asshole = And Being Mr. Nice stop with filter words.


When we talk about confidence!


We are talking about the natural one…, not the confidence with the use of substanctes.

- No Drugs
- No Alcohol
- No Cigarites


…

The antidote is consistent action… a
Doesn't matter results… if you at least start working on your mistakes.


…


I mean if you give too much fuck:

START GOING ON THE INTERNET AND START READING ARTICLES ABOUT HOW TO LESS GIVE A FUCK!


..


IF YOU WORRY WHAT PWOPLE ARE GOING TO SAY - START GOING AROUND HOW TO MAKE WHOLE SITUATION FUNNY.


COMEDY CAN LOWER THE WHOLE INTENSITY IN ALL THIS SITUATIONS


…

People are in a state or lets say in a stake of sadness… anger.. . No Need to give a fuck… stop caring and stop making this reflecting your concious mood.

Chapter 8 - Why Mr. Nice % And why not Mr. Badass?

 How “nice” are you when talking to women...


The other day I was talking to a client of mine, and he told me how he used to immediately reject most dating advice because the humor didn’t seem “female friendly”…


You see, the exact thing that this man thought would attract girls to him is the exact thing that keeps him OFF of their sexual radar.


Think about it like this:


I want you to imagine the last time you went out to eat at a restaurant…


Imagine about the people sitting around you… 


Imagine about the servers walking around taking orders from all the people sitting at the tables…


Now let me ask you… What did the person at the table right next to you order off of the menu?


If you answered, “Patrick, how on earth would I know that?!”


Then you answered exactly how I