How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #3) - DeYtH Banger (bts book recommendations TXT) 📗

with 4-7 women in his entire
lifetime, although that's certainly not the story that the
media seems to push onto guys.

That means you can be a virgin at 50, and as long as you're
able to fight through your internal barriers, change your
beliefs and ideas, and take action, within a few years (or
even months) you can have a lifetime worth of fun.

The key idea is to get started straight away, and lose the
EXCUSES.

Treat the next few months as practice, and tell yourself
that it will be a fun learning experience. Don't ever think
that it's "too late," or that you've struggled with women
for too long for you to make a dramatic change.

If you have the mindset that you still have plenty of time
left--and the truth is, you do--you are likely to take action
and feel less guilty and filled with regret (big energy
killers).

You'll be more relaxed, and you're more likely to STAY
motivated.

On the other hand, if you feel anxious and urgent because you
"need to make up for lost time," women are going to smell
that desperation like cheap cologne.

Real Techniques:

1. Convey Youth

How you convey your age is more important than the number of
years you've been on this planet.

By this, I mean be happy, have a youthful smile, and enjoy
life.

And certainly look at your jeans. (Yes, I'm serious!)

In fact, go and look at some new jeans this week. I always
see older guys wearing totally unfashionable jeans, and it's
one of the most obvious indicators that they have an old,
out-of-touch mentality.

Also take a cold, hard look at your hairstyle and wardrobe,
and look to update them a bit.

If you are happy, carefree, and loving life--and your
wardrobe and personal style convey a youthful, fashionable
edge--this is bound to make younger women notice.

2. Be Fun

I often coach older guys who are a bit too serious.

Picture four young women out on Friday night, having a good
time, relaxing after a big week at work. They just want to
kick back and have fun with a few drinks.

If a guy starts talking with them about serious topics that
lower their energy level, it's just not going to fly.

Women generally like older guys because they provide much
more interesting conversation, and because they're not
predictable and one-dimensional like younger guys often are.

The typical 25-year-old woman is more emotionally mature
than the guys her age, and for this reason, she often finds
herself more intrigued by older men.

But there is a time and a place for being serious.

Imagine what it feels like when you go from working hard at
your job for months on end, and then taking a holiday and
kicking back on a beach.

This is the laidback, carefree type of energy you want to
bring to your interactions with younger women.

If you are having trouble lightening up and chilling out
when you get involved in conversations with women, take a
closer look at your reality and your lifestyle.

If your reality and lifestyle are completely filled with
work and seriousness, then it can be pretty difficult to
instantly switch into "fun" mode when you're out meeting
women.

"Serious" guys tend to watch serious movies and television
shows (including a lot of TV news and politics, which can
be quite depressing), and listen to music that isn't in
tune with the tastes of the younger generation.

I suggest you switch up the types of shows, movies and
music that you normally feel comfortable with.

Try some TV shows like "Scrubs," "Curb Your Enthusiasm,"
and "The Office," which aren't particularly deep or
meaningful but are laugh-out-loud funny.

Buy some magazines that are playful and fun.

Listen to some music that is new and maybe a little trashy.

This also gives you fun conversational topics to talk to
women about. That hot 25-year-old babe at the bar might
know a surprising amount about politics, but that doesn't
mean she wants to talk about it when she's unwinding with
a few drinks.

Save the deeper discussions for once you're dating her.

Her first impression of you should be fun, playful and
youthful.

Some guys need to make a concerted effort to add some
light stuff into their reality, so that being playful
and relaxed around women isn't such a challenge.

When you talk to your friends, make an effort to not dwell
on the serious stuff, and get in the habit of just being
able to talk about stuff that is not that important and
does not matter in the big picture of things.

3. Go Out

As guys get older, their social circles tend to shrink.
Your friends get married, have kids, and are immersed in
their own lives.

Or maybe you've moved recently and haven't developed much
of a social scene in your new city. Perhaps you just don't
go out much anymore, because you feel a little too "old"
to be hanging around at the bars and clubs like you used to.

This may seem obvious, but you must get out of the house
and make an effort to socialize.

Maybe combine your socializing with an interest or hobby.

Personal development groups always seem to be filled with
attrac.tive women.

If you've always been shy, then it's time to shake that
off and become more social. Make it one of your goals to
make at least two people feel good about themselves, every
week.

This will lead to a multitude of friends, and people
liking you.

Break any patterns of judging people, or staying in your
shell, and make an effort to say hello and make friendships.

You'd be surprised how easy it is to do once you get started.

Specific Age-Related Issues:

Do you lie about your age, or tell the truth?

It's best to tell the truth, but in my opinion, you don't
have to tell her your age straight away.

Women may want all the information on you immediately, but
you don't have a responsibility to tell her everything
upfront and in the first few minutes, or even hours.

Use intrigue, and reveal things about yourself over time.

If every time she hangs out with you, you reveal some new
talent or hobby of yours, she'll be endlessly curious
and interested in knowing more about you.

This is much more effective than reeling off your list of
accomplishments and interests in the first thirty minutes
you spend talking to her.

Women will often use standard job interview-type questions
when they first meet a man--such as your age, your job,
where you live, etc.

It's better to bypass this "Q&A" and engage women on a fun,
more creative level. Stimulate that side of her, and
don't cater to her analytical and probing side--where
she's asking the questions, you're trying to come up with
the "right" answers, and she's running it all through her
mental computer and figuring out whether you're the type
of guy she should be interested in.

Now if you're reading this right now and you
would like to learn more 'secrets' on how to get a younger
woman to come home with you AND come inside with you after
a date, how to get her "turned on", and how to smoothly take
things to a "physical level" in a way that she'll enjoy.

 

 

 

 

 

P.S. - Here is the truth... there isn't a good or bad thought... it's just a idea of it... in reality it doesn't exist ... this whole thing is very well explained from Noah Elkrief. As for second

We all play a game (I have been around plenty of material starting from articles up to books and even videos and audiobooks... and let's sum it... audiobooks and audio material (Under audio material... I mean courses...)
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All of them say that Male figure needs to start play a game... start doing that and that... there some rules... Like not obsessing... getting more girls around which is going to improve confidece... looking busy and the list goes on.

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The same is for girls or ladies... said.. now I am following a channel... A youtube one...

 

 

 

 

P.S. - Which telling women how they should behave... what should they do... how they should own it and in the end... who is really the pro and who is just the bot in this whole game?
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Come on we can't all be pro?
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or here it's all about how good do you play this game...

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If she says something like

She: "I can't today... why you didn't say it... bit early?"
Or
She: "I won't come... thanks for invitation..."
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Does this mean you are a good player or not...

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This questions are damn good... I will continue go over the material and keep you in touch for more...

Chapter 13 - Roller-Coaster (Part 2)

 Note: When you talk to someone... you either create a value or you either create a damage... to get into this shit... you need to understand both POV's.

 

 

Hey friend,

Welcome to the Ultimate Eye Contact Exercise.
If you want to learn how to have natural, attractive, and high-status eye contact, then this

exercise is probably the most important exercise you can find on this subject.
We call it the Ultimate Eye Contact Exercise.
But before we go into the exercise…
Why is eye contact so important?
The eyes are the windows to the soul, and they never lie. Women will trust your eyes even
more than your body language. They will look in your eyes to see if you are the real deal.
So if you don’t know how to keep eye contact in a high-status way, then she won’t trust you

and you’ll lose her. If you can’t keep eye contact the proper way, it doesn’t matter how good
your dating skills are, or how many tricks or techniques you use—they simply won’t work.

But if you do know how to keep deep, relaxed, confident eye contact, then she’ll trust you
and you will have won half the battle.
Also, it has been scientifically proven that looking a woman in the eyes builds both attraction
and a connection at the same time. Therefore, it’s the easiest, fastest, most efficient, most
guaranteed way to build attraction and connection with women.
Knowing how to keep good eye contact is also a sign of high status, and women are very
attracted to high-status men.
This exercise will help you with more than getting women. Knowing how to have high-status
eye contact will also help you in business and other areas of your life.
In short, if you know how to maintain good eye contact, you’ll be able to attract amazing
women into your life, you’ll have more power and control, and you’ll be more successful.
If you don’t know how to maintain good eye contact, you’ll push women (and people in
general) away, you’ll have less influence, and you’ll experience more failures in life.
What keeps men from having good eye contact?
There are basically two reasons why we are not good at eye contact.
The first reason is that eye contact can create tension, and if we don’t know how to handle
that tension we’ll try to break it by breaking eye contact.
The second reason is attention. We sometimes break eye contact because we can’t keep our
attention focused on one thing. In this case, a person’s eyes.
The exercise you are about to learn is probably the most powerful eye contact exercise you’ll
ever find.
It solves both the tension and the attention problem.
Here’s how it works.
The Ultimate Eye Contact Exercise
Every morning you need to do the following exercise five times for 60 seconds each time:
 Turn on your TV (or your laptop, if you don’t have a TV).
 Turn the sound “off”.
 Put an object on top of your TV. A small object is fine. For example, you could use
the remote control. But anything will do.
 Stand or sit in front of your TV, and pick a spot on that object that’s on top of your TV.
 Now focus on that spot and really zoom in on that spot for 60 seconds.
 After those 60 seconds, distract yourself by doing something else and then do the
exercise again for 60 seconds. Do this five times