How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #3) - DeYtH Banger (bts book recommendations TXT) 📗

Magnetic Pull

I hope this is making sense to you dude because this is very important.

So back to your question...

I would challenge you to question where the ACTUAL fault lies here...

I would argue that you have great eye contact. Regardless of the situation.

You just need to realize how other certain people handle tension themselves.

As the facilitator of tension, you never want to dish out too much of it.

Just like a drug dealer...

A really good drug dealer will deal only the right amount at a time.

He would never give someone so much drugs that they overdose because then he just lost a customer.

But when he deals just the right amount, everybody keeps coming back for more!

So now that you realize that YOU are the facilitator of tension. I want you to start paying attention to how much of it you give to certain people.

Here's a general rule of thumb about eye contact...

There is only 2 ways that people will handle eye contact.

1. They will take it as a sign of se.xual interest.

In which case, the more fuel you add to the fire, the higher the buying temperature.

And the more likely you'll be doing sideways gymnastics with that person in the near future.

Or...

2. They will take it as a sign of confrontation.

In which case, you stimulate a FIGHT or FLIGHT response.

It looks like this may be the case with your "seniors"

So start paying attention to it.

Now obviously you don't want to lose your good eye contact all together. But you also want to stop offending these people who could benefit you.

So from now on I want you to start holding eye contact only 1 second longer than normal.

Right now it seems like you keep the eye contact, and even when YOU yourself feel the urge to look away, you keep the eye contact anyways.

Women love it. Most people don't.

So to maintain your status in those situations. Just hold it for 1 second after you get the urge to look away, and then you can feel free to look away.

It'll create just the right amount of tension to make people realize that you are a DOMINANT man. Who is IN CONTROL of his own state.

Which is magnetic.

ALSO, side note...

What could also be happening is that you are holding eye contact without saying anything...

When you can tell that the person you're looking at is not able to handle the tension, you can also decrease the tension by either talking, or laughing.

The 3 surefire ways to break tension is by:

1. Talking
2. Laughing, or
3. Looking away.

Period.

So with the girls you're talking to. Feel free to spike as much tension as you want. You'll probably notice that THEY break the tension.

Which is good, because if she breaks the tension with laughter, or chatter, then you can rest assured that her attraction for you is going THRU THE ROOF.

But when you are talking to your "seniors" be more aware of how THEIR state is in the moment, and adjust from there.

Hope that helps.

On that note.

Go out. Dominate your day.

And do something that your mother probably wouldn't approve of... ;-)

Chapter 8 - Tactic

Hey friend,
Welcome to…
Think And Kill Your Approach Anxiety
Inside this resource you’ll learn how to kill your approach anxiety in just 90 days.
Frankly, you’ll learn how to change and achieve anything you want with this exercise.
So what is this magic technique?

We’ll, I might disappoint you because you’ve probably already heard about it.
But most people never use it consistently.
Is it because it sounds too good to be true?

Is it because people are always looking for the shiny and new idea or technique?
Is it because people prefer difficult things?
“Hey, if it’s so damn hard it must work.”

I don’t know the answer. But what I do know is that this simple technique works like a charm.
It’s my favorite inner game technique. I use it to make improvements in all areas of my life.
It’s also the number-one technique I teach my private $10,000-a-month clients.
Almost nobody talks about this technique. At least not anymore.
And the few people who teach it are teaching it the wrong way.
Most people who teach it call it “affirmations.”

In 1960, Dr. Maxwell Maltz wrote a book called “Psycho-Cybernetics”. In this book, he
reveals what he learned through his work with his patients: that positive self-affirmations
change people’s self-image.

This was such a powerful discovery that most of the big-name motivational and self-help
experts like Tony Robbins, Brian Tracy, and Zig Ziglar have based their techniques on Dr.
Maxwell Maltz’s work.

Many of the psychological methods used today to train elite athletes are also based on the
concepts of psycho-cybernetics.
We are talking about one of the most powerful methods out there to increase self-esteem
and become more confident.
In fact, we are talking about one of the most powerful methods out there to change anything
you want to change, and achieve any goal you want to achieve.
Of course, this only works as long as you respect the laws of nature. You can tell yourself
millions of times that you can fly like Superman, but you won’t be able to do that. Ever.
But as long as we’re talking about psychological stuff, you can pretty much change
everything you want to change.

Don’t have enough discipline to go to the gym three times a week? Use affirmations and you
will.
Don’t know how to quit smoking? Use affirmations and you will.
Want to date hot models? Use affirmations and you will.
Anthony Robbins says that for some strange reason, he got everything out of life that he
affirmed to himself.

But here’s the problem with the way most people teach affirmations.
Most teach you to say the affirmations out loud.
Why is that a problem?
For starters, there’s just something that feels weird about talking to yourself out loud. Most
people try it once and give up quickly for this reason.
Because you say it out loud, it’s also NOT user-friendly. What if there are people around?
Therefore, you CAN’T always use affirmations when you want to use them. This lack of
flexibility to use them when you want causes people to stop using them.
Luckily, there is a much better and easier way to use affirmations.
Here at Introverted Badass, we teach “thought loops”.
What are thought loops?
Thought loops are affirmations that you loop in your mind. You don’t speak them out loud.
Why is that important?
First, because it’s discreet. You can use them whenever you want: while you’re driving,
walking, on a bus or on a train. You can even use them while you’re working, and nobody will
ever know about it.
This makes it a lot easier to use them. Therefore, you’ll keep using them consistently.
You have to use affirmations for 90 days straight to make a permanent change.
Can you imagine screaming affirmations out loud multiple times a day for three months?
It’s not always possible due to time constraints or various other situations.
On the other hand, if you use thought loops, you’ll always find a way to schedule it in.
That’s because you can do them while you’re doing something else, and it’s all going on
inside your head.

How do you use thought loops?

Here’s an exercise to turn you into a powerful, confident man who attracts women on
autopilot.

 Choose an affirmation. For example: “I’m a truly self-confident man”.
 Make sure it’s positively formulated.
o Wrong: I’m not timid around women.
o Right: I’m over-confident around women.
 Make sure it’s in the present tense.
o Wrong: I will be a truly self-confident man.
o Right: I’m a truly self-confident man.
 Loop it for five minutes in your head.

 The first 10 times you loop it in your head, do it with emotional intensity. So, you start
the exercise by closing your eyes, and inside your head you say your affirmation 10
times with full emotional intensity. After you’ve said it 10 times, you can open your
eyes and keep looping the same affirmation for five minutes while doing something
else.
I find it helpful to use a timer on my phone to remind me the five minutes are up.
Do this for five minutes in the morning and five minutes in the evening.

Three PROVEN Done-For-You Thought Loops

If you want to become more confident, become more of a challenge, and kill all needy
behavior, then use these three PROVEN thought loops.
Use each one of them twice a day for five minutes each. Do this for 90 days straight, without
skipping a single day.

The Approach Machine

I’m an approach machine. When I see a woman I like, I approach her—no matter when, no
matter where.

The Core Confidence Creator:

I’m a TRULY self-confident man! I exude real, natural core confidence!

The Approach Anxiety Destroyer

I love approaching women. Every time I approach women I feel great, confident, and excited.

WARNING:

The first week or two, doing your thought loops might feel like you’re lying to yourself.
That’s because you don’t believe what you’re saying to yourself yet. The trick is to keep
going no matter how you feel about it.
After two to three weeks it’ll feel normal, and you’ll start to accept your thought loops. And
after 90 days the change will be permanent.
You’ll find this works so well, you’ll want to start working on other areas of your life too.
There you go, my friend! You just learned a powerful exercise that will help you achieve
anything you want in life.
The only question left is… how much do you want out of life?
I want you start imagining the impossible.
Now, take action. Start using your thought loops right here and RIGHT NOW.

Chapter 8.1 - Needy Texting Mistakes Guys Make

  

By Texting & French Seduction Expert - Claudia Cox.

If your texting game is weak, it could be ruining your chances of finding love.


Scratch that - it IS ruining your chances of finding love.


And if you’re saying, “But I’m not interested in love, geez. I just wanna have some fun and get laid,” well, we’ve got news for you: A weak texting game is ruining that too.


Girls don’t want needy men. They want cool, confident cats who are assertive and in control. If she doesn’t text back for a while? No big deal. You’ve got other girls to text.


Today, you’ve got it much easier than guys had it in every decade before the new millennium. Back then, they didn’t have a smartphone.


If they wanted to get to know a girl, they had to cross no-man’s land and actually talk to her in person.


They couldn’t hide behind a text and edit their messages before pressing send. They had to cough and splutter and sweat their way to sealing the deal.


You’ve got your phone. You’ve got it easy. You just need some superior texting skills so that you finesse the opposite text so much that she stops texting other guys and focuses on you and you only.


So we’re going to take a look at the sloppy