How to Talk to Anyone (Junior Talker #3) - DeYtH Banger (bts book recommendations TXT) 📗

a playful face.


You know you’re doing it right if…

• She reacts shocked in positive way: “Ohhhh, omg, I can’t believe you just said that”.

• She punches you on the arm

• She teases you back


You know you’re doing it wrong if…

• She becomes more quiet

• She retreats in her cocoon while on the date

• You see on her face she didn’t like it at all


If you ever get a negative reaction from a woman when you tease, just give her a hug and say “Oh, come here, darling. I’m so sorry”.


That should set it straight.


 When to Tease and When Not to Tease

 

In general, you want to have a normal conversation with women where you focus on building a connection.


On top of that, you want to pepper in some teases to make sure the conversation doesn’t become boring and to spike attraction from time to time.


As I said, it’s about peppering it in. The purpose is not to tease all the time, because that wouldn’t work either.


Just rotate the teasing with building a connection and being sincere.


Also, the more beautiful the woman is and the more sassy she is, the better teasing works.


Imagine a beautiful woman that has men eating out of her hand, and think of what behaviors she’s used to from men. She’s used to have men putting her on a pedestal. Teasing works extremely well with these women.


In general, if you are dealing with a very sweet, young, innocent girl, you probably don’t even need to tease her. She might not be ready for that yet.


Okay, so now that you have a better understanding of what teasing is and why you should use it, let’s have a look at some examples.


Here are five proven teasing tricks that work like magic.

 

 

 1) Tease Her for Being From the Country

 

If she tells you that she’s not from a big city, tease her about it.


“Oh, um, okay, so, you’re…from the country. Well, that’s okay. And so, then, you grew up on a farm or something? Let me hear your accent again”. This is said with a playful face.


Even if she’s not from the country, you can always go back far enough in her family and find someone that’s from the country. An aunt or an uncle or a grandmother—there’s usually always some way to go that direction and tease her about it.


 2) Tease her by “Implying” She’s Dumb

 

During your date, you can bring up the topic of movies and ask her what her favorite movie is.


After she tells you her favorite movie, you can then playfully say, “Did you understand it?”Wait for a reaction and then say, “Come on, you can tell me…it’s perfectly fine if you didn’t understand it.”


The sillier the movie, the better it works. Let’s say at some point during your interaction, you’re talking about the movie “Dumb and Dumber”. If you then ask her if she understood it, it’s even more funny.


 3) Tease Her by “Implying” She’s Always Chasing Men

When you are in a venue with her, you could say something like, “So, tell me, how many men do you know here? Let her answer, then say “Come on, you can tell me... How many men have you been on dates with?


If you are walking with her down the street and holding her hand, you could let go of her hand, grab her wrist, and make her wave at a man that just passed by.


You’ll definitely get a punch on the arm for that



If her phone goes off during your date, you could say, “Oh, is that a Tinder notification?”


Again, you do this in a playful manner.


 4) Tease Her by “Implying” She’s Obsessed With Sex

 

 

You can do this in many different ways. Here are a few funny ones.


If you just met her and she shakes your hand, you could pull her hand toward your crotch and say… “Whoa whoa whoa, what are you doing?”


You could also bring her attention to your crotch by holding your smartphone with the lights on next to your crotch. When she looks there, you say, “Did you just look at…?”


When standing somewhere with her, you can also open your zipper and then say something like, “What did you just do? How did you even do that?”


And you do this (say it with me) in a PLAYFUL way.


 5) Tease Her by “Implying” She Doesn’t Have Table Manners

 

If you are at a restaurant with her, you could take some breadcrumbs and put them next to her plate without her noticing it.


Then when the waiter comes to take away the dishes, you point it out and say “Omg, I’m so sorry, sir!”


Or if she makes some noise, apologize to the people next to you.


Of course, do it playfully.


Now, remember, you’re not constantly teasing her. You are balancing it by deeply connecting with her and being a gentleman. For example, you open doors for her, help her put on her coat, etc.


If you mix the teasing with gentlemanly behavior and deeply connecting with her, she’ll become ADDICTED to you. Women love it THAT much.


 ConclusionTeasing is a way to spice up your conversations and spike emotions of attraction in women.


There’s a difference between negging, cocky-funny humor and teasing.


Negging and cocky-funny don’t work on quality women, but teasing does.


There are two important things to do that will make your teases work even better.


First of all, you need to tease in a playful way.


Second, and this is CRUCIAL, you MUST mix it up with sincerity and deeply connecting with her.


If you only tease her, she’ll see you as immature and she’ll lose interest in you.

Chapter 8.2 - Tactic (Part 2)

Hey friend,
Welcome to your bonus: Seven Conversation Hacks To Never Run Out Of Things To Say.
Do you sometimes run out of things to say with women? Do conversations not always come
easily to you? Do you sometimes wonder what to talk about on a date?
If so, then this document has the solution for you.
If you want to learn how to have natural, free-flowing conversations with women, then these
seven hacks will be pure gold for you.

Why is it important to have free-flowing and natural conversations?
Without a conversation, there will be no relationship.

Conversation is the building block that will enable you to spend time with women—time you
can use to get to know her, build attraction, bond with her, and become physically close.
Basically, conversation allows you to keep the dating process going, so you’ll be able to
escalate toward a physically intimate relationship.
Of course there are some exceptions, like in a nightclub, where you can physically escalate
toward a kiss without talking. But even then you’ll need to eventually talk to her to take things
further.

Being a good conversationalist shows you have social skills, which in and of itself is an
attraction trigger. Women want to know they can go places with you if they become your
girlfriend.

And also, women just love a good conversation.
So if you know how to have great conversations:
 you will be able to attract and build relationships with awesome women
 you’ll have more power and control over your love life
 you’ll have more influence over women
 you’ll be more successful in your dating life
If you don’t know how to have great conversations with women, you’ll probably live a lonely
life, you’ll be a victim of the dating scene, and you’ll fail with women.
But cheer up, my friend. With these seven hacks, you’ll know how to talk like a badass!
Without further ado, here are…

Seven Conversation Hacks To Never Run Out Of Things To Say

1. Start off on the right foot.

A great start is half the work.
If you start your date off on the right foot immediately, you’ll set the tone for the rest of
the date. It will loosen both of you up and set the scene.
Here’s a great thing you can say immediately when you meet her on your date: “You
look nice. Did you dress up like this just for me? Aww…you shouldn’t have.” Of
course, you say this with a charming, self-confident smirk on your face.
Why is this a great start? First, it’s cheeky and funny. Second, it immediately sets the
frame that she’s into you. It frames her as the pursuer and you as the selector.
This also positions you outside the friend zone right off the bat.

2. Have a safety net.

When you go on a date with a woman, make sure to have some conversation topics
prepared in advance. The idea is that after you set the playful vibe explained in point
one, you just naturally talk with her and see where the conversation is taking you. The
conversation will be easy and natural because you know you have those back-up
topics ready for use. Therefore, you will be relaxed and comfortable. And when
people are relaxed and comfortable, they don’t have any problems having a
conversation.
However, if you ever feel the conversation is running dry, you just fall into your safety
net. Just go to one of these conversation topics and everything will be fine.
I’d suggest you prepare five conversation topics. Don’t prepare scripts—that won’t be
natural. Just prepare some topics. Also, it helps if for each topic you have three
interesting questions to ask her already in the hopper.
Examples include her best vacation ever, where she grew up, her family, the most
embarrassing moment in her life, her passions, what she wanted to become when
she was a little girl, etc.
Also, make sure to have an interesting answer ready for when she asks you the same
question back.

3. Have a double safety net.

When we run out of things to say, it’s usually because of stress and the fear of
running out of things to say.
Knowing you have a backup plan or a safety net will eliminate that fear. However,
knowing you have a double safety net makes you invincible. Not only will you know
that you won’t run out of things to say, but you’ll have more than that: you’ll have

CERTAINTY.

This certainty will allow you to have those natural, free-flowing conversations.
And if for whatever reason the conversation dries up, you fall into your safety net, and
if that’s not enough you just fall into your second safety net!
I can virtually guarantee you that if you have two safety nets, you’ll probably never
use them because you will be so relaxed and in the moment.
Funny little games are great to use as a second safety net.
Here’s a funny game you can use. It’s called “The Questions Game”.
The rules are: you both take turns asking each other a question. You have to answer
the question. But you can’t ask a question that the other person has already asked.
Just set it up like this: “Hey, I’ve read about this funny little game you can use on a
first date. It’s called ‘The Questions Game’. Wanna try it?”

4. Say “Tell me more.”

A great hack to keep the conversation going is to just say, “Tell me more”.
This is great because it keeps her talking. Also, it’s a little commanding. It’s a bit
dominant, and most women love that in a man. It also shows you are interested in